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What do the great Christian commentators say about Exodus 20:12? Below is a side-by-side look at how Matthew Henry, John Calvin, Charles Spurgeon, Albert Barnes, and John Wesley read this passage — where they agree, where they diverge.
Exodus 20:12 · WEB
“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the LORD your God gives you.”
Interprets the promise of long life as a general blessing and principle of divine favor, not an absolute guarantee for every obedient individual.
Presents the promise more strongly as a direct consequence and reward for honoring parents, implying a more consistent link between obedience and longevity.
Summaries are AI-rendered overviews of public-domain commentaries (Henry, Calvin, Spurgeon, Barnes, Wesley). Always consult primary sources for study.
Late 17th Century
Henry stresses that honoring parents is a command with a promise, linking obedience to a long and prosperous life in the promised land. He interprets 'honor' broadly, including respect, love, obedience, and providing for them in their need.
“Honoring parents is a foundational duty that leads to well-being and God's blessing.”
Mid-16th Century
Calvin views this commandment as a recognition of the natural order and God's appointment of parents as His representatives. He emphasizes both outward respect and inward affection, seeing disobedience not just as a familial offense but as rebellion against God's authority.
“Parental authority is divinely ordained, and disrespecting parents is a form of contempt for God.”
Late 19th Century
Spurgeon emphasizes the deep affection and reverence due to parents, seeing the command as rooted in natural love and gratitude. He highlights that this applies even when parents are flawed, as their role is established by God, and the promise of long life is a sign of divine favor.
“True honor for parents flows from a grateful heart and acknowledges God's hand in their position.”
Mid-19th Century
Barnes explains 'honor' as encompassing respect, obedience, and care, noting that it's a duty extending throughout life. He sees the promise as a general blessing associated with such obedience, not a guarantee for every individual instance, but a principle of divine favor.
“Obedience and respect for parents are practical duties that typically result in God's favor and a good life.”
Mid-18th Century
Wesley interprets 'honor' as a deep respect and reverence for parents due to their God-given authority and role in bringing us into existence. He believes disobedience grieves God and disrespects His ordinance, with the promise of long life being a typical reward for this upright conduct.
“Reverence for parents is a clear sign of a righteous heart and an acknowledgment of God's divinely appointed order.”